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Ideas for Catholic Wedding Readings


There are four Catholic wedding readings that typically comprise a Catholic wedding ceremony. The first reading (from the Old Testament), a Responsorial Psalm, the second reading (from the New Testament), and a fourth reading from the Gospel. Here is the typical order of the Catholic wedding readings within the ceremony, starting after the seating of the families, the wedding processional, and the entrance of the bride:

First, an Opening Prayer is usually given by the priest.

The First Reading typically comes from the Catholic book The Rite of Marriage. Here are a few options:

  1. Genesis 1:26-28, 31: “God created man and woman.”
  2. Genesis 2:18-24: “The two of them became one body.”
  3. Proverbs 31: 10-13: “A woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.”
  4. Tobit 8:5-7: “Allow us to live together to a happy old age.”
  5. Genesis 24: “In his love for Rebekah, Isaac found solace after the death of his mother."
  6. Tobit 7: “May the Lord of heaven prosper you both. May he grant you mercy and peace.”
  7. Sirach 26: “Like the sun rising in the Lord’s heavens, the beauty of a virtuous wife is the radiance of her home.”
  8. Jeremiah 31: “I will make a new covenant with the house of Israel and the house of Judah.”


In Catholic Wedding Traditions, the Responsorial Psalm is typically recited by a cantor, or song leader. The cantor sings the verses, then leads the assembly in the response (which is typically the title of the psalm). Here are a few suggestions:

  1. Psalm 33:12, 18, 20-21, 22: “The earth is full of the goodness of the Lord.”
  2. Psalm 34:2-3, 4-5, 6-7, 8-9: “I will bless the Lord at all times.”
  3. Psalm 103: “The Lord is kind and merciful.”
  4. Psalm 128: “Happy are those who fear the Lord.”
  5. Psalm 145: “The Lord is compassionate to all his creatures.”
  6. Psalm 148: “Let us praise the name of the Lord.”


The Second Reading is then given from the New Testament. Here are a few suggestions:

  1. Romans 8: “What will separate us from the love of Christ?"
  2. 1 Corinthians: “Your body is the temple of the “Holy Spirit;” If I do not have love, I am nothing.”
  3. Philippians 4:4-9: “The God of peace will be with you.”
  4. Colossians 3:12-17: “And over all these put on love, that is, the bond of perfection.”
  5. 1 John 4:7-12: “Love in deed and in truth.”
  6. Revelation 19:5-9: “Blessed are those who have been called to the wedding feast of the Lamb.”


The Gospel Reading is usually given by the priest. Here are some suggestions:

  1. Matthew 5:1-12: “Rejoice and be glad, for your reward will be great in heaven.”
  2. Matthew 19:3-6: “What God has united, man must not separate.”
  3. Mark 10: 6-9: “They are no long two, but one flesh.”
  4. John 15: 12-16: “This is my commandment: love one another.”


Next comes the Homily, which is typically a short sermon or word given from the prist. The homily is followed by the exchange of Catholic Wedding Vows, followed by the Blessing and Exchange of Rings. After the rings are exchanged, there is a Lighting of the Unity Candle, usually accompanied by a song.

Finally, there is the Concluding Rite. Usually the Lord's Prayer, the Assembly joins together to recite this prayer, led by the priest. A final blessing is given, and the ressional begins.

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How to Choose your Wedding Ceremony Readings and Wedding Vows


One of the best ways to personalize your wedding and have a unique wedding ceremony is to present special readings, often given by close friends, family members, or parents. Here are some tips on choosing your wedding ceremony readings:

  • Choose text from a favorite song, novel, or poem that captures your relationship. If you don't feel comfortable speaking the wedding ceremony readings yourself, you can have a member of the bridal party (or the wedding officiant) read them.
  • Look up quotes online, or in a book of quotes, that express what you want to say. Then, in the vein of that quote, continue to expound on its meaning in your own words, and why it is relevant to you and your future spouse.
  • Write your own wedding ceremony vows. When writing your vows, it is important to write them as if you are speaking only to your future husband or wife, and not write them as a performance for your wedding guests. The vows should be expressed genuinely, straightforwardly, and honestly.
  • When writing vows, remember to express not only how you feel about the other person, but also how you intend to commit your life to them and make them happy. Some people write wedding vows that simply include how the other person makes them feel, or what they like about that person. Remember that the purpose of wedding vows is to proclaim your love and commitment to that person.


Choosing Your Wedding Ceremony Readings


One of the most significant ways to personalize your wedding—and particularly, your ceremony—is to choose wedding ceremony readings that are meaningful to you. Here are a few ideas to consider when choosing passages:

Are you a literary person? If so, you have a wealth of material to choose from. Start by thinking about your favorite quotes. Do they express how you feel about each other? Or, do they make some sort of large statement about the world and your commitment to each other? Do they inspire you? If you are having trouble deciding on a passage, you can even look up quotes online, and then try to find the context in which they were spoken (or written). Sometimes, you will find some great passages that surround the famous quote (that people are not as familiar with but will enjoy hearing).

If you are not particularly fond of books, Shakespeare or poetry, then perhaps think of your favorite songs and consider reading the lyrics, if they are appropriate to your relationship. Perhaps you both have a song that really captures the time when you first met, or expresses the way you feel about each other. Lyrics are poetry, just as much as Shakespeare. Make sure that the song you choose is meaningful to both of you, and worthy to be read on your big day.

Are you spiritual? If your relationship is grounded in a certain religion, then choosing a quote from a sacred text may be the perfect option for wedding ceremony readings. Most religious and/or spiritual books have plenty to say about unconditional love, often the basis for a lasting marriage.

If you are bilingual, you could read a text in your native language. The nuances of language are endless, and a text in one language can have a different feel when translated to another. If you choose to do this (and there are people at your wedding who do not speak the language), it is a good idea to either read the passage in English afterward, or to print it in your program as a reference. Your guests will want to know what was said! In a 2011 wedding in Long Beach, CA, most of the attendants were Chinese, but many were also American. The parents of the bride and groom each read some passages, first in Chinese and then in English. It was very special, and everyone understood and could relate to what was said. This was a great way to incorporate Chinese wedding ceremony traditions (namely, the reverence given to the wisdom of elders and parents) at an otherwise Western wedding.

Write your own readings and/or wedding ceremony vows. This is perhaps the most difficult of all of the options, but completely worth the undertaking. You do not have to be the best writer, or the most eloquent person. Just write simple statements that capture how you feel about the person and how you intend to make them happy. You can always have a writer friend look over your work to make sure your writing flows!